So my baby boy’s a snowboarder. He’s five.
I’ve shown this video to everyone I’ve seen in the last two days. Posted it on Instagram. Emailed it to uncles and grandparents in Miami, London and South Africa. My mom shared it on Facebook. I’m sorry if you’ve seen it already, but here it is again!
I don’t usually show off my kids. Not because I’m not proud of them. Every day at least one of them does some small something that makes my heart beam. Or even a not so small something. Aced a math test, was called up in assembly for being a good friend, earned a yellow belt in karate, said “I’m good thanks, how are you?” without a manners reminder, wrote his name by himself, sang Ma Nishtana (Passover song) in Hebrew, scored the winning goal in the soccer game.
Not all of it is interesting beyond the six of us, or even just the two of us. Most of it isn’t. (Except to their grandparents). So I don’t usually talk about what they’re up to, unless I’m asked specifically. A question beyond “How are the kids?” And most of the time, what they’re up to is really nothing special: he tied his own shoelaces, she wrote a poem, he read the entire Harry Potter series in one week. Oh. Nice.
But my little shredder up there on the slopes – I can’t get enough of him. I’ve watched that video over and over, and I find something new to kvell over every time. The way he holds out his little gloved hands for balance. The big smile on his face. The turn he does at the end, with a little flourish. Not only can I not get enough of him, but I want to offer him up to anyone who will stop for 20 seconds and watch his five-year-old snow prowess.
Of course I subjected my friend S to a viewing yesterday. She was as excited to watch him snowboard as I was, and then she said, “It’s so cool when they do things we can’t do, right?”
Yes! It is so cool. More than so cool. I have never snowboarded. And I’m not sure if I ever will. It’s unimaginable for me. To do what he did. Do what he can do. Balance on a board and slide down a snowy ski slope. I can’t imagine what it feels like. But this child of mine, who is 35 years younger than I am, knows exactly.
Snowboarding looks like something I would love. Maybe one day I’ll find out. But right now, watching him do it feels even better than doing it myself. Kvelling.
This post was written as part of the April A to Z Challenge. To read more of my A to Z posts click here.
Nicki, How great! I can feel you beaming off this blog. Jed is definitely a natural!
xo
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Thanks for reading, Jac! I think he is too :). xo
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So wonderful! I didn’t try any sport that involved snow until I was 41, so I’m full of envy and pride when I see tiny people who are confident in the stuff! Yay for your gorgeous son!
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Oh Michelle you give me hope that it’s not too late for me :)! But I do love that my kids do things I don’t…
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No, I’m afraid you can’t take hope from me – I endured skiing for three days then vowed never to do it again! Hats off to your young son for sticking at it!
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Hey great post! Kids are amazing. I believe they keep wonder alive in us as we get older. Quite a little guy. I hope you are enjoying the challenge of A-Z. Keep up the good stuff.
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Thank you! This kid is particular keeps pulling me into a wonderful world of uninhibited joy… Love your western writing – learning a lot! Happy A to Z-ing :).
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I love love your writing and this blog! What a great post… Amazing. And the OPI colors at the end are such a great touch. Your blog should be viral.
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Wow Amy thank you!! and thank you especially for reading – so happy you’re enjoying it. The OPI colors are fun, I agree – I’ve enjoyed writing to their names :).
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Well even though I’m the grampa I think Jed is something special for doing that on the snowboard .I could never do that.Good on you young man .I love you XXX
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Nope Grampa Bas I don’t think I could do it either! xo
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I showed Estelle (my excessively sporty physio) and she was totally floored. She loved the turn at the end. BTW – have sent the video to all my friends & the family here! TG for WhatsApp LOL
Nice piece Nix… maybe we can talk tomorrow? love you xxx
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A very proud Granny indeed! Love you xx
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