Zom-body to Love

source: unbiasedtalk.com

source: unbiasedtalk.com

I love to love. To feel love. It’s a warm, happy, feeling that fills me from the tips of my toes to the very ends of my hair. Often it overwhelms me in intensity, or moves me to tears of wonder. Sometimes it feels far away, unreachable, and then even in the happy I feel sad. But still, I love to love.

I was not an emotional type as a child and young adult. Didn’t cry much, not even when a pet died. Felt awkward in situations heavy with feeling, blinked back the tears that threatened to spill when the movie was so sad. Hugged and kissed family and friends, but in a happy-go-lucky way, keeping it one layer light.

But as I’ve married, given birth – pregnancy, labor and delivery have no regard for emotional discomfort! – aged, experienced, argued, reconciled, lived… that intricately latticed fence that kept my messy tears and intense loving feelings “up there” has been weathered down, its two by fours weakened by the hot sun and pouring rain. The lattice is cracked, blistered, decomposed.

And now here I am – exposed to love.

I love to love. And to show my love. For my family, near and far. For my friends, also all over the earth. For my graying, aging, blind little doggie. For my kids’ teachers, and my rabbi, and my hairdresser. By saying, doing, writing, or just feeling.

This month, writing daily from A to Z, has been one of the most fulfilling, soul-destroying experiences of my life. I have amazed myself with my discipline, my creativity, my perseverance. And have disappointed myself with my creative lack, my inability to carve out time to write, my willingness to give up. There have been days when the words have bubbled happily forth in no time at all, but more when I’ve searched for every drop in any corner of my heart, mind and soul. It has been a month of memories, dark and delightful, of intense emotion almost from the start. I have cried, raged, felt joy, defeat and accomplishment – often all those, every day.

And today is April 30. Z-day. And what I feel, at the end of it all, is simply: Love.

Zom-body to Love by OPI

Zom-body to Love by OPI

This is my final post in the April A to Z Challenge. Thank you for joining me on this crazy, colorful ride through the alphabet. To read all my A to Z posts click here

10 thoughts on “Zom-body to Love

  1. I have THOROUGHLY enjoyed all of your posts! I’m so glad that we ran into each other through this challenge. 🙂 I look forward to reading much, much more of your writing!
    (I also have lots of nail polish colours to go out and purchase…. :D)

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  2. Gorgeous gorgeous post and honestly, I have so much admiration for all of you A to Z’ers or however you say it. There’s no way I could do it every day. I used to, once upon a time, but wow. Huge respect, you. Big. Love the nails, too!

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    • Thank you, Kristi! It was an amazing experience but I’m glad it’s over and now I can write when I want, even if it’s every day :). So appreciate you reading, commenting and tweeting. xo


  3. Beautifully expressed Nicki..”I love to love”..simple and so precious. Thank you for your lovely comment on my post. So nice to meet you via Katrina, I have been honoured to participate in this blog hop, what a delighful group of writers! Warm wishes…from Saigon. 🙂

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